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All families are different, and when making arrangements for children or applying for a parenting order, it’s important to make sure the arrangements are practical and in the children’s best interests.
When making a parenting order, the court must consider what’s in the children’s best interests.
The court will presume it’s in the children’s best interests for parents to have equal shared parental responsibility, unless there has been child abuse or family violence.
Equal shared parental responsibility is not the same as equal parenting time.
Parents have duties and responsibilities in relation to their children whether they’re separated, divorced, re-married, re-partnered or were never in a relationship with each other.
When making arrangements for the children or applying for a parenting order, it’s important to make sure the arrangement is practical and in the children’s best interests. See what to consider when making parenting arrangements for more information.
A Family Relationships Centre, Legal Aid Queensland or a family dispute resolution service may be able to help you reach an agreement.
Parenting arrangements may cover:
There are three different types of written parenting arrangements:
The law recognises that every family is different and that people other than parents (such as grandparents and extended family), may play an important role in the children’s lives.
Where it’s in the children’s best interests, grandparents, extended family and other people who are concerned with the welfare of children, can be included in a parenting plan, consent order or parenting order. Both parents must be part of any agreement or order in relation to the children. See caring for children when you are not the parent for more information.
If both parents agree, you don’t need to go to court to formalise your agreement. You can record your agreement as a parenting plan or a consent order.
A parenting plan is a written agreement setting out the care arrangements for children. It’s signed and dated by the children's parents and is an informal way of agreeing on these arrangements.
It doesn’t have to be in any specific format or witnessed.
You should get legal advice before making a parenting plan.
A parenting plan can be changed at any time by making another written agreement which is signed and dated by the children's parents.
Parenting plans aren’t legally enforceable. If you already have a parenting order or a consent order, a parenting plan made after the order will make any terms of the original order, which are varied, legally unenforceable. An exception to this is where the original order includes a rule that the order can’t be changed this way. If you are planning to vary a parenting order or a consent order by making a parenting plan, you should get legal advice before doing so.
If you apply for a parenting order after making a parenting plan, the court doesn’t have to follow the parenting plan, but the court will consider it when deciding what kind of orders to make.
You can make your agreement legally binding by applying to the court for consent orders—a written agreement (or parenting plan) approved by the court. Consent orders have the same legal effect as other parenting orders.
To apply for consent orders you’ll need to complete the approved court form — Application for consent orders kit and attach the proposed orders. You will also need to complete an Annexure to draft consent parenting order. This should be filed with the court at the same time as the application for consent orders.
The consent order must be signed, dated and witnessed by an appropriate witness (eg a Justice of the Peace). You don’t need a lawyer to apply for consent orders, but we recommend getting legal advice as it will affect your future rights. There is a fee for filing an application for consent orders.
If the court approves your application for consent orders, a court seal will be placed on the consent order documents and both parents will be given a copy of the documents for your records.
Consent orders can only be changed by a further consent order, parenting plan or parenting order.
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amica is a secure online service that helps separating couples to:
amica can help you negotiate and communicate online with your former partner to reach an amicable agreement. If you can agree on a property settlement and parenting arrangements with your former partner, this can potentially cut your legal costs and save you money.
amica is not suitable to split/divide superannuation.
amica guides you through a step-by-step process, and offers you information and support along the way to help you reach an agreement.
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If you disagree, you can apply to the court for a parenting order.
Before applying you should try and reach an agreement through family dispute resolution. You must include a certificate from a family dispute resolution practitioner with your application saying that you’ve been to, or attempted to go to, family dispute resolution, or that it’s their opinion that it’s not appropriate for you to go. There are some exceptions to this — get legal advice.
A parenting order is an order made by the court about your parental responsibilities and arrangements for your children.
The Family Law Act sets out what the court must consider when deciding what kind of parenting orders to make.
A parenting order is legally enforceable and there can be serious consequences for disobeying an order
You may need legal advice if:
We may give legal advice about making agreements for the arrangements for children.
The following organisations may be able to give legal advice.
Community legal centres give legal advice on a range of topics. Contact them to find out if they can help.
Women's Legal Service gives free legal advice to women on areas of law including domestic violence and family law.
Queensland Law Society can refer you to a specialist private solicitor for advice or representation.
Family Relationship Advice Line gives information about the family law system in Australia.
These organisations may be able to help. They don’t give legal advice.
Family Relationship Centres gives information, referrals, dispute resolution and advice on parenting after separation.
Federal Circuit and Family Court of Australia deals with family law cases. Court forms and information on family court processes are available online.
Department of Children, Youth Justice, Multicultural Affairs — Child Safety investigates reports of harm or suspected child abuse against any child under 18.
Domestic and Family Violence Court Assistance Services gives information and help about domestic violence and applications in some courts in Queensland. Court assistance workers can also help with applications for Legal Aid and referrals to other services.
DV Connect — gives counselling, information, referral and help including refuge and shelter placement and crisis intervention to people affected by domestic violence. They also manage the Pets in crisis project arranging foster care for pets while people affected by domestic violence are in temporary accommodation.
Mensline (DV Connect) is a free, confidential telephone counselling, referral and support service for men.
Relationships Australia offers a range of men and family relationship services including counselling, family dispute resolution, assistance on relationship and parenting matters and education courses.
Queensland Police can help if you or your children are at risk of harm.
Disclaimer: This page is provided as information only, and is not legal advice. If you have a legal problem, you should contact us or speak to a lawyer. View our full disclaimer.
Last updated 6 December 2022